Monday, October 9, 2023

Lose to Gain

 What do I mean by Lose to Gain? 

I guess you all are familiar with the phrase that states "You never know what you've got until you lose it". Yeah! That's what I'm talking about, Sometimes we must lose our dreams in order to realize just how precious they are to us then when restored and emerge with new life from the tomb of our regret, we can celebrate their resurrection with true appreciation. In all these, consider how your dream can Bless others as well as fulfill your own purpose and desire for a meaningful life. Don't just live life for yourself,but live a life that inspires other people to emulate your lifestyle and use the same strategy that worked for you. If our dreams only involves more money,asset and personal achievements,then we'll continue to feel empty because we're not passing on the passion to fuel someone else's dream. Therefore we must allow our dreams to evolve just as our lives have evolved to see them transcend our own happiness. In addition, before you quit your dreams consider if nothing changed from this point forward,are you satisfied with your life? If your answer is no,then quitting isn't the way out. So consider reassessing, readjusting your dreams to better suit your circumstances and the person you are now. For example, If you want to start a business, take a trip or begin a second career,But whatever it is inject some positive energy into your dream by taking a seminar, joining a support group,returning to school or reading a book on the subject. Also devise a new plan, surround yourself with positive like-minded people. Then proceed by taking risk, little by little towards actualizing your goal. Be observant,take notes, consider what you learn. If it works out great! If it doesn't adjust and then take another step but make sure to keep moving and never slow the pace. Do it again and again until you're closer to making your dreams come true.👌

A Wake Up Call to All

Learn to be open minded in life: Plan for the worst but Hope for the best; 🤔 I know some people might be in a state of confusion as to what this means and may be like, Hmm She has come again what is she even saying sef?! Lol... 

Well for me this strategy is very necessary in order to build up strong capacity of the mind to accept things in good faith regardless of how ugly the situation may seem.This concept can also be termed as a 'Coping Mechanism' like many of us are familiar with. N/B: Stop being overly serious with life's compounded issues that tends to drain mentally and weigh one down. Don't have unrealistic high expectations to things like it's a 'do or die' affair, 'now or never' thereby getting yourself worked up over nothing especially things beyond your control that are bound to happen eventually. So instead of doing things your way that ends up in futility,why not let go and let God step into that situation and handle it the best way he does which of course yields effectively. Moreover, There's absolutely nothing impossible for God,also with God all things are possible and whatever God cannot do does not exist!!! (Jeremiah 32:17 & 27).

So till I come again with more interesting and insightful contents... Ponder on this 👆 Remember I Love You All but God Loves You Even more.❤️

Monday, September 4, 2023

COMPARISON

"STOP THE ACT OF COMPARISON: For Comparison Takes Away one's Identity".

No one should be compared to anyone cause Everyone's Similarity as human beings can't be likened to someone's Peculiarity as an Individual.Don't get it? Alright no worries, Let me emphasize further on it; As Human beings we are quite Similar in the aspect of being from the same society, background, ethnicity, culture e.t.c but Peculiar as Individuals when it comes to personal values and instilled God given gifts to become what each and every one of us are Destined to be (We standout from the crowd). Therefore Our Uniqueness lies in the Authenticity of Our Personalities which Comprises of the Qualities we Possess. So till I come again with more interesting and insightful contents, Please stay through to being true to yourself and become uniquely you! I Love You Guys but God Loves You Even More. #FAVOURITES 

Lose to Gain

 What do I mean by Lose to Gain?  I guess you all are familiar with the phrase that states "You never know what you've got until yo...