Lose to Gain

 What do I mean by Lose to Gain? 

I guess you all are familiar with the phrase that states "You never know what you've got until you lose it". Yeah! That's what I'm talking about, Sometimes we must lose our dreams in order to realize just how precious they are to us then when restored and emerge with new life from the tomb of our regret, we can celebrate their resurrection with true appreciation. In all these, consider how your dream can Bless others as well as fulfill your own purpose and desire for a meaningful life. Don't just live life for yourself,but live a life that inspires other people to emulate your lifestyle and use the same strategy that worked for you. If our dreams only involves more money,asset and personal achievements,then we'll continue to feel empty because we're not passing on the passion to fuel someone else's dream. Therefore we must allow our dreams to evolve just as our lives have evolved to see them transcend our own happiness. In addition, before you quit your dreams consider if nothing changed from this point forward,are you satisfied with your life? If your answer is no,then quitting isn't the way out. So consider reassessing, readjusting your dreams to better suit your circumstances and the person you are now. For example, If you want to start a business, take a trip or begin a second career,But whatever it is inject some positive energy into your dream by taking a seminar, joining a support group,returning to school or reading a book on the subject. Also devise a new plan, surround yourself with positive like-minded people. Then proceed by taking risk, little by little towards actualizing your goal. Be observant,take notes, consider what you learn. If it works out great! If it doesn't adjust and then take another step but make sure to keep moving and never slow the pace. Do it again and again until you're closer to making your dreams come true.👌